http://ps3devwiki.com/index.php?title=Flash#NOR_Flash
All the files tagged "pc" are per console and those are the files you need to get from your dump. It lists start and end offsets so it shouldn't be a huge problem.
And to answer your second question : it won't work because you'd need to replace the per-console data from the PS3A NOR dump with the data from the PS3B dump to allow it to boot, and the per console data contains the hard drive related info.
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PS3 Slim CECH-3004A 160GB (500GB)
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