You can't play on online with a cfw ps3, but I understand what you want. You need a jailbroken ps3 to install the mw2 patch and then, transfer it to your 4.11 ofw ps3. OR, you can downgrade like
said and install the patch then, upgrade to 4.11 again. Those are your best options.
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