As serious as your question is and as nice as you seem, you need to learn not to ask random questions that are WAY off topic. On top of that your answers are EXTREMELY easy to find if you just made the effort to SEARCH. It also makes no one want to help you because it is VERY annoying.
Use the search function at the top of the site or google.
From now on look at threads the same way you would look at a conference. You wouldn't walk into a business conference entitled "How to make Money", and ask the guy speaking what color penguins are, would you?